Please see this post and my answers: Calling a parent window function from an iframe
It is possible, but not easy. You have to hack about a bit to get it to work.
I believe that, because you have access to the framed domain and frame page domains, you will be able to use the document.domain-in-the-head trick.
<script>
document.domain = "mydomain.com";
</script>
Update:
Can I just check the following?:
Have you put the document.domain <script> in the head of both pages?
Do both have the exact same string, i.e. both have "subdomain.mydomain.com" or both have "mydomain.com"? Typically you use this to ensure that the framed page has the same document domain as the parent.
Do you still get a security error after calling a parent function from the framed page?
If not, this is the function I use to resize my frame. It is located in the head of the framed page.
window.ResizeFrame = function (newHeight) {
if (window.parent && window.parent.document) {
var $frame = $(window.parent.document).find("#frame-id");
if ($frame.length) {
if (typeof (newHeight) === "number") {
$frame.css("height", newHeight);
}
}
}
};
Let me know how it goes!